{"id":5876,"date":"2022-04-17T11:21:28","date_gmt":"2022-04-17T11:21:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/puertomorelostravelagency.com\/this-beach-in-mexico-is-an-lgbtq-refuge-but-can-it-last\/"},"modified":"2022-04-17T11:21:28","modified_gmt":"2022-04-17T11:21:28","slug":"this-beach-in-mexico-is-an-lgbtq-refuge-but-can-it-last","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/puertomorelostravelagency.com\/es\/this-beach-in-mexico-is-an-lgbtq-refuge-but-can-it-last\/","title":{"rendered":"This beach in Mexico is an LGBTQ refuge.  But can it last?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p> [ad_1]<br \/>\n<\/p>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">ZIPOLITE, Mexico &#8211; As the sun begins to slide toward the ocean in this idyllic beach town on the Pacific coast of Mexico, a quiet migration begins.  Groups of people, mostly gay men, many of them naked, go down the beach to a high rocky outcrop.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">They climb a winding staircase, over the jagged cliff, and descend to a hidden cove known as the Beach of Love, or Beach of Love.  As the sun turns an orange orb, the sky turns purple, and the many naked bodies, black and tanned, curved and chiseled, are brushed with gold.  When he finally dives into the water, the crowd erupts in applause.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">&#8220;Love Beach at sunset, the first time I saw it I really wanted to cry,&#8221; said Roberto Jerr, 32, who has been visiting Zipolite for five years.  &#8220;It&#8217;s a space where you can be very free.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">For decades, this ancient fishing village that has become a hippie meeting place has been an oasis for the queer community, which is attracted by its golden beaches, countercultural atmosphere and the practice of nudism that embraces bodies in different ways.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">But as its popularity has grown, attracting a growing number of gay and heterosexual visitors, the city is beginning to transform: foreigners are taking over land, hotels are multiplying, influencers are approaching the beach, and many residents and visitors now fear what he did before.  Magic Zipolite could be lost for good.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cEveryone in the community should visit a place where they can feel comfortable, where they can feel free, like Zipolite,\u201d Mr.  Jerr, that&#8217;s gay.  &#8220;But on the other hand, there is also this other part, this ultra-mass tourism that is starting to leave places without resources.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Once a community of farmers and fishermen, Zipolite became a popular destination for European hippies and backpackers from 1970, when many came to the beaches of the state of Oaxaca to see an exceptionally clear view of a solar eclipse.  Hippie tourism gave the city a bohemian spirit (it is one of the few nudist beaches in Mexico) that also began to attract queer people, who were welcomed by most residents.  In February, Zipolite chose the first openly gay person to lead the city council.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">These tolerant attitudes are rare outside the big cities of Mexico, where conservative Catholic values \u200b\u200bpersist.  Although gay marriage is legalized in more than half of the country, homophobic and transphobic violence is common.  Between 2016 and 2020, some 440 lesbian, gay, and transgender people were killed across the country, according to Letra Ese, in a defense group in Mexico City.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">David Montes Bernal, 33, grew up within hours of Zipolite in a conservative community where masculinity and homophobia were ingrained.  When he was about 9 years old, the city chaplain did what he called &#8220;virtually an exorcism&#8221; to force his homosexuality.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cThat\u2019s when I realized it was a hostile place,\u201d Mr.  Bernal.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">At Zipolite, she has found a place where she can feel comfortable in her sexuality and safe in her body.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cI felt a kind of hope,\u201d Mr.  Bernal on his first visit in 2014. &#8220;It finally looks like there&#8217;s now a place where we can be who we want to be.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">As the voice of this opening has spread, the city&#8217;s LGBTQ population has grown: gay bars and hotels have multiplied, rainbow flags are common.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">But as so many locals agree, some believe that Zipolite&#8217;s identity as a relaxed city that welcomes anyone, from Mexican families to Canadian retirees, is eroding, turning it into a gay party town.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Miguel \u00c1ngel Ziga Arag\u00f3n, a resident of the area who is gay and called &#8220;La Chavelona&#8221;, has seen the boom of the local economy, not only for gay tourism, but for the increase in tourism in general.  Although formerly housed rustic cabins and hammocks along the beach, Zipolite\u2019s tourist scene has become what he calls the \u201cmost VIP\u201d: beachfront suites now cost up to $ 500 a night.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">The growth of tourism in Zipolite reflects a statewide trend in Oaxaca: from 2017 to 2019, the hotel industry\u2019s revenue increased by more than a third to nearly $ 240 million.  In the same period, the number of tourists visiting hotels in the coastal region that includes Zipolite grew by nearly 40 percent to about 330,000 people, according to government figures.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">&#8220;It&#8217;s a change that&#8217;s good for the economy, but not so good for the community,&#8221; he said.  Ziga Aragon. <\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Along with an identity crisis, many fear an environmental crisis.  Mangroves have been built;  wildlife is disappearing.  Neighbors complain about the lack of running water, which could be aggravated by increased urbanization.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">While most residents agree that more planning is needed, some say transformation is inevitable.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cIt\u2019s the life cycle of every tourist destination,\u201d said Elyel Aquino M\u00e9ndez, who runs a gay travel agency.  &#8220;You have to seize the opportunity.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">But others fear that Zipolite may follow in the footsteps of many Mexican beach towns that have become thriving resorts, such as the popular gay destination of Puerto Vallarta or, more recently, Tulum.  Formerly a bohemian paradise, Tulum&#8217;s Caribbean beach has become a lucrative real estate market full of luxury hotels, influential celebrities and, increasingly, violence.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Pouria Farsani, 33, who lives in Stockholm, enjoyed the combination of beautiful nature and fun partying when she first visited Tulum in 2018, but when she returned last September she discovered that she felt &#8220;like a part of Mexico colonized by the party &#8220;.  \u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Mr. Farsani learned about Zipolite from some Mexican friends and visited it for the first time in January 2021;  he was delighted.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cWhen I\u2019ve seen other gay scenes, it\u2019s been very stereotypical,\u201d she said.  &#8220;What was happening here was people of all body shapes, ages, socioeconomic status. We could all get together here.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">The positivity of the body in Zipolite is partly what makes the nudist beach special for many, gay or heterosexual: for Mr. Farsani, who has alopecia, a hair loss disease, it was particularly profound.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cI\u2019m very happy with my body, but I\u2019m not the Ken-doll type,\u201d he said.  &#8220;It scares the people of Europe, while here my alopecia is nothing more than making me stand out a little more.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">However, as Zipolite&#8217;s popularity has grown, its hippie environment is changing.  Bars are noisier, restaurants are more elegant.  LGBTQ tourism is also changing, becoming more and more Americanized, less diverse.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Ivanna Camarena, a transgender woman, spent six months at Zipolite last year and only met a handful of other transgender people.  \u201cThe bodies were very athletic and very masculine,\u201d he said of the people he saw on the beach during his first months there.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">He recalled that he had gone to a nudist party that were almost exclusively gay men.  &#8220;When I got there I thought, &#8216;Wow, what does a trans woman do here?&#8217;  Like, they were weird. &#8220;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Notable changes include what has happened at Love Beach, which once hosted bonfires and played guitar and now often features laser lights and DJs playing house music.  People used to chat through different social groups;  now the beach has become more segregated into cliques.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">The sex scene has also evolved.  While visitors, including heterosexual couples, have had sex on the beach after dark for decades, in recent years it has become more cheeky, with dance parties sometimes turning into group sex in the shadow.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">&#8220;It&#8217;s getting more and more hedonistic, more hedonistic, more hedonistic,&#8221; said Ignacio Rubio Carriquiriborde, a sociology professor at the National Autonomous University of Mexico who has studied Zipolite for years.  &#8220;Now there&#8217;s more of a constant party dynamic.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">Many residents have become uncomfortable and the city council recently voted in favor of a curfew at 9pm on the beaches to curb these activities.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cOne thing is freedom and another is debauchery,\u201d Mr.  Ziga Aragon.  &#8220;You can have sex with whoever you want, but in private.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">For others, the concern is more environmental.  Miguel \u00c1ngel L\u00f3pez M\u00e9ndez runs a small hotel near the Playa del Amor and says that partygoers often leave the beach a disaster.  Once, while diving out of the cove, he remembered seeing condoms floating &#8220;like jellyfish.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cEvery person is free to do whatever they want with their body,\u201d he said.  &#8220;The problem is that there is no consciousness.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">For some gay men, Playa del Amor&#8217;s open sexuality is part of their power.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"css-53u6y8\">\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">\u201cYou\u2019ve been banned from so many things since you were a kid:\u2018 Don\u2019t be like that, \u2019\u2018 Don\u2019t say that, \u2019\u2018 Don\u2019t do that, \u2019\u201d said Mr. Bernal, who lives in the nearby town of Puerto Angel.  &#8220;Suddenly, when sex is an act of catharsis, so many things are released.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">However, Mr.  Bernal is also concerned about the future of the city, where tourism is booming, natural resources are scarce and so many foreigners are buying properties that the price of land has become largely unaffordable for locals.<\/p>\n<p class=\"css-g5piaz evys1bk0\">&#8220;Everyone comes here on holiday to have something to eat,&#8221; he said.  &#8220;A piece of beach, a piece of your body, a piece of partying, a piece of nature.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<aside class=\"css-ew4tgv\" aria-label=\"companion column\"\/><\/div>\n<p>[ad_2]<br \/>\n<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.nytimes.com\/2022\/04\/12\/world\/americas\/mexico-nude-beach-playa-del-amor.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Source link <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[ad_1] ZIPOLITE, Mexico &#8211; As the sun begins to slide toward the ocean in this idyllic beach town on the Pacific coast of Mexico, a quiet migration begins. 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